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customer service

This meme about customer service depicts someone doing sex work.  But it reminds me of how working retail felt for me.  I stroked the egos of a bunch of nasty white guys who were customers, while dodging the harm of coworkers who all had their own agendas and assnesses also.  I had to be reliably

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queer art

I love this queer art by the_papa_artist.  Please visit and support https://www.instagram.com/the_papa_artist/.  This queer art feels so luxurious and empowering.  Sensual and realistic. First I loved this one, Respect Sex Workers. View this post on Instagram A post shared by PAPA artist AKA Betty Rose (@the_papa_artist) The pinks, the feelings, the tarot cardness, the art

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pain

We passed this Brazilian wax place today.  I think it was called Pretty Kitty.  I realized the name was descriptive of the service.  The idea is to use wax to rip the hair off your pussy, so it will be hairless, as this aesthetic is desirable to some people.  To the point that they will

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sex work is work

Hey, I missed International Day to End Violence Against Sex Workers.  It was December 17th.  Sex work is work. Yeah, who decided sex workers aren’t valuable people whose well-being matters?  I didn’t decide that, and I won’t play along.  Sex workers are my favorite people. Thank you for making choices to speak up for sex

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my porn journey

From believing porn was bad, to considering making porn for money, my first encounters with porn, and what I think of it now–I’ve been on a journey that has taken me to some strange places.  Actual experiences, dreams, and fantasies have fueled my sexual imagination, but porn has too. early I hadn’t made up my

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