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rapping about vulvas

Rapping about vulvas is brilliant.  Telling our cunt stories is a worthy project.  Yes.  Thank you, Awkwafina, for rapping about vulvas, so wonderfully. My Vag, I have to admire the cleverness, the boldness, and bravery.  It hurts, when she insults fat disabled people.  That’s me–fat and disabled.  But I have my charms, and my fat,

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poem

sex as healing

sex as healing the bold head and matching wings form a plump wishbone shape I would lick until you shake. please rest in the joy of my care, then come on my tongue and learn my name in the depths of your contracting vulva. you gave everything to many loves who half-understood and blamed you

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language

Sexual slang is important and totally respectful language.  A close friend and I talk about this.  The slang hurts her–she finds it disrespectful. So I’ve been thinking about why I love sex slang.  One reason is resisting authority and love of DIY.  Dictionaries and doctors don’t own the right to label my body parts.  I

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pictures of me

I asked my spouse to take pictures of me–my cunt specifically.  I had not seen it very well in a long time.  This was a great idea, to ask for help and make a day of it! long ago When I was a young person, I used a mirror to look at my cunt.  That

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vulva potato

I was looking at pics of vulvas on wikicommons for a while, looking for a vulva pic for the last blog post sex retreat.  At first, it was a simple photo hunt, for a pretty public domain cunt.  Hahaha, that should be my new name.  Public Domain Cunt. It turned into something more, of course. 

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cunt magic

A cunt is an amazing organ.  I love cunt magic.  I was taught mine was shameful–that cunts are an obscene embarrassment.   But then I grew up and could make choices about my own body and change how I feel about it. envaginate I’ve been thinking about that word envaginate for a long time.  As in,

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