I always thought couples therapy was a great idea. Talking about feelings, needs, the future, compromises with another person present who could add insight and might see things we don’t see. Sounds like it would make for a healthier relationship and might help us avoid problems. Therapy on my own has been great for me.
“Hey, can I ask you something edgy?” I asked my spouse. “Yeah,” he said. “You know how kids are not supposed to have a sexuality?” “Yeah?” he said. “But they do, right. But we’re supposed to kind of pretend that they don’t?” “Yeah?” “But it’s not a problem. It’s a problem if adults hurt them,