One of my favorite groups on a social media site is about lesbian sex. I’m fascinated by lesbians. I’ve never fully been a lesbian, but I’ve considered at different parts of my life– am I a lesbian? Whatever I am, I enjoy giving lesbian sex tips to strangers. A lady was feeling guilty for not
It hasn’t made sense for me to post here lately–I wouldn’t know where to begin. I’ve been riding out some big changes with sex, sexuality, gender, relationship, and relationship values. I don’t know what it’s ok to talk about where. So I’ve been living it instead of writing. I adore my spouse, who I have
Dear one, I want to tell you that paranoia makes sense. I’m not making a mistake exactly. I’m seeing what’s there after being gaslit by culture. The contrast between the truth and the official word is whiplashing. Like when my mom died. It’s bad enough to lose someone I need and all that entails–her unfathomable
“It’s such a relief, not to be Miss Piggy for once,” I said. My spouse has been making obnoxious kissing sounds sometimes when they kiss me, and it makes me laugh. I told them they sound like Miss Piggy. “Mwaaah! Mwaaah! Mwaaaah!” they kiss, and I giggle. “Mwaaah!” My giggle inspires them–they do it more.
Dear one, Yesterday I was telling you, I want to go down on our mutual friendly acquaintance / acquaintancely friend. They’d mentioned that they weren’t going to the May Day event to work, but to get laid. “I’m not going to DJ unless someone is sucking my dick while I’m DJing,” they said. Surprised, I
There are so many things to do at a sex club. My spouse and I were out of town, visiting the city, eating Thai food for lunch with an old friend. I mentioned that night we might go to a sex club we’d never been to before. Actually I mentioned it by name–my friend seemed
My spouse was upset that their friend was not getting back to them and not making time to see them. My spouse was upset to the point of losing sleep about it. “Is there something wrong with me?” my spouse asked. “No, sweetheart,” I said. “You’re a good friend–you’re amazing. There’s something wrong with the
My spouse and I had a photo shoot yesterday. I was masturbating, and the light was right as I lay in bed on the rose pink sheet. Taking photos was a way to help my spouse stay awake. They had just fucked me, and I asked them to clear off the bed of blankets and
My spouse and I went to a hot springs, and it was my first time in a clothing optional space. Well, the sex parties we enjoy are clothing optional. But this was more nudity and felt different. Strangely, it felt sexier at the hot springs than the sex parties.–at least our first visit on a
I was in love with my Friend, but we are not well-suited to one another for partnership. We have a huge age difference; that’s partly why. They are in a different developmental stage from me, as a young adult, while I am middle aged. So I’m planning a letting go ritual. Not to break up,