Tag: rest

theory

chastity belt

Post author By Nest
Post date October 22, 2022
1 Comment on chastity belt

I was thinking about a friend I had long ago for a short time who wanted me to hold a key to his chastity belt. He was into these devices–the kind he had was plastic–that encase a dick, and are locked with a key. Why have I never talked about this chastity belt here on

Tags chastity, culture, fetish, friendship, love, rest, sex, trauma

theory

monogamy is not a safety net

Post author By Nest
Post date August 8, 2021
3 Comments on monogamy is not a safety net

Sometimes I wish safety was possible. I saw this meme saying “Monogamy is not a safety net” and felt a sad joy of recognition. So true. I wish monogamy was a safety net–I wish there was safety anywhere. I prefer openness, with honest communication, doing the work of love, showing up, the pleasure and joy

Tags comfort, gender, love, open, relationship, rest, sex