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content warning: fat shaming I’ve written a lot about learning to love my fat body, over the years.  This is a good overview I found in my drafts folder recently and cleaned up.  I hope it communicates well my life with fat and my journey of finding truth. survival I used to think fat equals

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aftercare

I had a sexual encounter with someone I’d never been with before, a visitor who I’d just met in person for the first time.  He flew in an airplane to see me and stay with me and my spouse.  I’d been in love with him for more than a year, and I was shocked at

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