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queerness at the sex party

There’s so much I learned at the sex party.  I wrote that long post about it, but I left a lot out.  I want to write about queerness at the sex party because that’s one of the things that I was paying attention to and that matters the most. age I have a cliche that

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real

I’ve been reading a lot of ads on Lex, the queer app for dating, friends, and events.  Maybe I’m overdoing it and they’re getting in my head too much.  The terse, flirty cleverness is tiresome.  I’d rather be real. For me, real means direct and vulnerable.  But for most people, dating isn’t about real.  It’s

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