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theory

monogamy is not a safety net

Sometimes I wish safety was possible.  I saw this meme saying “Monogamy is not a safety net” and felt a sad joy of recognition.  So true.  I wish monogamy was a safety net–I wish there was safety anywhere. I prefer openness, with honest communication, doing the work of love, showing up, the pleasure and joy

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smut

my friend

I have this fantasy, vivid and detailed.  My friend who broke up with her husband last year was coming to town to visit family–she called me up to ask if she could have sex with my spouse. She didn’t seem that nervous to ask–it was matter-of-fact.  She told me she hadn’t been with anyone since

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poem

golden rabbit

This poem “golden rabbit” is about open relationship and whether we admit that we’re free. golden rabbit Every relationship is an open relationship. It’s a matter of whether you admit you are free. Old friend was standing in the kitchen– I was wearing that yellow dress men get excited by. He looked at me, and

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theory

seeing you better with my eyes closed

We were in bed and had sex. I usually have my eyes closed.  This is about seeing him during sex. what sex is Well, sex is when I suck his dick, when he’s caring for my nipples with touch, when we cuddle in a sexy way, when I gently bite his hands, when we say

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