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news

My spouse read that last post about how I was hurt by a friend who we loved.  “Do you ever see his news?” I asked. “No,” my spouse said. “Maybe would you look him up?” I asked.  “I’m just curious if he’s alive.” “Ok, I can do that.” “Would you look up my ex-husband also?”

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what is sexual attraction

I was at this sex event, and someone mentioned she’s demisexual.  I was like–what’s demisexual.  Some idea I had was that demisexual is a type of asexuality. Someone else asked.  The demisexual woman explained–it means you’re only sexually attracted to people who you know well. I was amazed that this was a special thing, to

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