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intentional non-monogamy

Intentional non-monogamy is important to me.  I need freedom to be who I am, learn, and not have all my eggs in one basket.  Diversity of support is necessary, as a realistic disabled person.  I’m not close to my family of origin, and my parents are both dead.  Community sustains me, and I get life-meaning

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sexually responsible: how I invented ethics and learned how to love

insert image here I looked up BDSM public domain images to plop into this post, and what I saw had nothing to do with what I actually did. the stuff we did wasn’t costly–I didn’t buy any costuming or gear.  I’m not a thin white woman with big tits, restrained and slightly grinning, suggesting naughtiness.

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