I had not been around Mexican guys drinking beer in a long time. That’s my family, the family I don’t see anymore, since my mom died. The Mexican guys drinking beer got my feelings swirled around. My instinct was to stay as close to my spouse as possible and pretend I didn’t understand what they
I don’t have kids of my own, but I have niblings. They are teenagers. The eldest at least is queer. Someone asked me recently about supporting kids around sexuality. The sex ed I got in school was worthless. I was mostly self-taught, about sexuality–before the internet too. I read a couple zines that were helpful.