Before this lover I recently lost, I’m not sure I ever had avoidant sex as an adult. Definitely when I was a teenager, a series of white boys preyed on me– they were avoidant if anything. They wanted sexual pleasure then an easy exit, not to build actual relationships of balanced care. This recently lost
I really like this organization, Disability and Sexuality Access Network. I love disability, disabled people, disability justice, access. Also, I’m curious about pain, illness, health done in an authentic way that actually helps, rights. So many disabled people in this world, and we matter. Our needs matter. Then sexuality is so important to me too–being
I’m loving trans friends, of the present and the past. Here are some thoughts for Trans Day of Remembrance. Transness is desirable. thank you Thank you to my trans friends and partner, for being close to me and sharing your reality with me, which is a reality as valid as any. Maybe more valid. I