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impact implements

I have four things I love to be hit with.  These are my beloved impact implements. my spouse’s hands the flogger my spouse made of black parachute cord a colorful wooden spatula a shortened yardstick Yes, such good things. thuddy vs stingy I like a mix of thud and sting.  My spouse’s hand is my

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topping

“I finally understand topping now,” I said to my spouse. Lying in bed long after waking up, I was having a slow morning, staring out the window.  I was looking at the tall pear tree by the bike shed, in the rain. “The pears are only reachable on the bottom part of the tree,” I

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you’re a good sub

“You’re a good sub,” my girlfriend said.  “So good at saying what you need.” Wow, we were at the rose garden to watch a play.  I must have given her a strange facial expression, because she knew I had a big reaction inside. “What?” she asked. “God, I love hearing that,” I said. “That you’re

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