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shibari

“What’s shibari?” my dear housemate asked, the one I like to touch.  We were in the kitchen, where so many important questions are asked. A riparian housemate washed his dishes, while we others waited. “It’s tying people up,” my knot-loving housemate answered simply. The knot lover had offered shibari as an after-dinner game, better than

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chastity belt

I was thinking about a friend I had long ago for a short time who wanted me to hold a key to his chastity belt.  He was into these devices–the kind he had was plastic–that encase a dick, and are locked with a key. Why have I never talked about this chastity belt here on

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hand fetish

Oh hey.  I have a bit of a hand fetish.  Did I already tell you about it?  There was a post about worship of the hands.  And I think I’ve mentioned hands making me horny.  But now I would like to go into a little detail. breast pic This pic I took of my breasts–I

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food fetish

I don’t think of myself as a food fetish kind of person.  Sure, garlic makes me horny.  But that’s normal.  Garlic makes everyone horny! Then I told my spouse I was craving lasagna really bad.  But I can’t eat it.  Well, I could try it with a white sauce instead of red.  Veg instead of

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used purple underwear

I was in a bathroom, going pee, looking down at my underwear.  They are probably my favorite–purple–and they have some holes.  I suddenly realized: wow, these things are beat.  Very used purple underwear.  They’re faded in the part where a little pee gets on them, pee-bleached.  I’m guessing it’s been ten years, I’ve been wearing

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my feet

I used to feel very private about my feet.  I didn’t want them messed with.  They seemed lowly, making contact with the ground.  Calloused, never super clean, vulnerable to a shard of glass or stubbed toe.  Sore, a lot of the time.  They seemed off limits. An ex had sex with my feet, one time. 

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