Abuse can be a train wreck, or subtle, long term harm. Deep in a relationship, it can be hard to have perspective. What’s healthy? What do I deserve? What’s happy? Is life really supposed to be like this? Wow, I was out to sea so long. I forgot what happy could look like. I thought
“Hey! Honey!” I yelled. I was stark naked, about to take a shower. “Yes?” my spouse asked. “Do we have any more drain net things, for the bathroom sink? The one in here is moldy and nasty and disgusting, and we need a new one! Seriously! I cannot live this way!” He was impressed by