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rapping about vulvas

Rapping about vulvas is brilliant.  Telling our cunt stories is a worthy project.  Yes.  Thank you, Awkwafina, for rapping about vulvas, so wonderfully. My Vag, I have to admire the cleverness, the boldness, and bravery.  It hurts, when she insults fat disabled people.  That’s me–fat and disabled.  But I have my charms, and my fat,

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language

Sexual slang is important and totally respectful language.  A close friend and I talk about this.  The slang hurts her–she finds it disrespectful. So I’ve been thinking about why I love sex slang.  One reason is resisting authority and love of DIY.  Dictionaries and doctors don’t own the right to label my body parts.  I

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theory

cunt magic

A cunt is an amazing organ.  I love cunt magic.  I was taught mine was shameful–that cunts are an obscene embarrassment.   But then I grew up and could make choices about my own body and change how I feel about it. envaginate I’ve been thinking about that word envaginate for a long time.  As in,

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ten dirtiest hottest words

Someone on fetlife asked–what are the dirtiest words.  I listed what I consider the dirtiest words, and hottest. no I like saying no, while my spouse fucks me, holding me down.  Or while he rubs my cunt, a finger pushed between those lips and pressing my clit.  Sometimes we just started, and it hurts because

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ritual

love sex ritual

  This love sex ritual is about connection, blessing, honoring.  A refreshing of commitment and expression of care.  Please adapt for use with your own partner person or persons. materials:  friendship candle, dish of water, rose oil, hunk of amethyst, Mother image, chocolate, water to drink, lighter, pouch of magic I am naked in the

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