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dream of the fisherman’s wife

This image, Dream of the Fisherman’s Wife by Hokusai, makes me think of a man I loved long ago.  Somehow I mentioned to him I like pictures of an octopus doing it with a person. Who wouldn’t think this was hot?  Am I a pervert?  Well, if so, yes.  I will be a pervert. This

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breast convention

“That would be conventional,” I said, and moved his hand to my breast.  We were cuddling nakedly in bed, and he was sleepy.  We were having a conversation that was inconsequential. “Wow, wouldn’t that be great.  Would you like to go to a breast convention?  I bet you’d like that.” “Yeah!” he said. “Mmm, I

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phone cuddle

I made a meme about phone cuddle.  I’ve been thinking about phone cuddle for a long time. The above meme was partly inspired by this simple meme I saw on a friend’s facebook. I need a lot of options.  Phone sex, phone cuddle, letter sex, email cuddle, flirtation.  Chosen family, moving fast or slow, intentional

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performing care for blowjobs

pesto love “Can you smell the pesto on my breath?” I asked–I’d just come to bed, waking him. “Yes,” he said.  We were both mostly naked and cuddly. “Does is smell good?” I asked. “Yes,” he said. “Are you jealous that I fell in love with pesto?” I asked. “No, it’s ok,” he said. “Well,

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ten ways to love

Do you have the relationships you want?  Are you getting the love variety you need?  There are more than ten things that make me feel loved.  But I thought I would make this list as a start–ten ways to love.  Please consider loving me in these ways, if you get the chance. hugs I need

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