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reasons to be poly

This meme is playful, the reasons to be poly, and this brain ranking.  It’s not to be taken seriously–the point is the D&D joke at the end.  But I saw my reasons are not on there. My main reason to have open relationship is resilience through diversity.  It’s a permaculture concept.  I wish for a

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respect of sexual needs

My spouse and I went away on a trip.  When we came home, I realized that the power dynamic here is so messed up, in a way I had never articulated to myself.  It has to do with respect of sexual needs. It hurts the men who live here, when I wear tank tops.  Hurts

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phone cuddle

I made a meme about phone cuddle.  I’ve been thinking about phone cuddle for a long time. The above meme was partly inspired by this simple meme I saw on a friend’s facebook. I need a lot of options.  Phone sex, phone cuddle, letter sex, email cuddle, flirtation.  Chosen family, moving fast or slow, intentional

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