These sex notes are for my spouse– things I’ve noticed, felt, and wanted lately. sex notes Dear lover, Yesterday when we had sex, I thought maybe when you were fucking me, I could have cum a second time. The vibrator was still on my clit, and I rode out that intense orgasm which made me
This letter about relationship pain comes from a hurt place I don’t know how to talk about. This letter is an unsent attempt to sort it out. Dear friend, I’ve been thinking about me and you. I remember you mentioned most of your partners have been mean to you, or a mixed situation. My spouse
I wrote about what happened last summer, when my spouse and I briefly lived on a small farm where the farmer witch wanted a sister wife. Writing helped me realize again: there can be such a large gap between what we want vs what we say we want. sister wife How much truth will fit,
“Open it,” I said. I was lying in bed after a shower with the fan blowing on my body. I was drying off my cunt, my ass, and the place between my abdomen and mons. And the creases between my thighs and cunt. So good to get wet and clean, then nicely dry. It’s beneficial
My spouse and I were on a long car drive, playing driving games. Suddenly I remembered a years-forgotten game I made up when I was young. You have to rank five things. I asked my spouse to rank these five things by sexual preference. smacking my ass by hand smacking my ass by flogger consent-non-consent
“I wanna put my dick inside of you,” my spouse said to me. We were in bed, and he was very horny. “Why do you wanna do that?” I asked. “To see if it still fits?” “Yeah,” he said. “I’m going to put it in all the way, and see if it still fits. And
“Do you have any requests?” I asked. We were in bed. I was telling my spouse how much I love him and kissing him. “I want to make love,” my spouse said. “You wanna make love?” I asked. He was sleepy. He never uses that language. “Yeah! I want to build love,” he said. “Build
A friend I’d been in love with for more than a year came to visit. Communication is not a strength of his. So I wasn’t sure what he was coming for. He’d just broken up with his abusive partner, more definitively this time, and it was a good chance for him to travel. But why
There was someone on the fetlife fans fb group asking an advice question. He met someone in a regular life context, and wants to try being with her–he’s dommy and asked how to introduce kink. I read some responses that grossed me out. But I’ve been thinking a lot about how to do relationship: communication,
Briefly over zoom, I saw a friend’s sticker about consent, saying it’s like fries. I was really confused. What? Weird comparison. what it is Consent to me is clear, comforting, sometimes formal, and crucial. Sacred, even! A standard yet tender way to show love, and give respect and care to other people. Consent is how