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nipple instruction

I was giving my spouse some nipple instruction, and I thought you might be interested also, dear reader.  In case you encounter my breasts, or if you need ideas for how to interact with other breasts. request “Can you grab my tits like this?” I asked, demonstrating.  I grabbed my own breasts.  He watched, and

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dick comfort

“Does your dick need comfort?” I asked. “Yes,” he said. “Dicks have to do a lot of work,” I said.  I grabbed his dick, as he pulled down his chonies.  “Getting big and small over and over again, all day.  Dang.  Exhausting!” “Right!” my spouse said. “And you have to be enthusiastic, but not too

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mama cat

I’ve seen a facial expression of a mammal who had a litter and is nursing numerous baby animals.  Mostly a mama cat, lying on her side, with countless kittens climbing on her and going for the milk.  She gave birth to them a few days ago.  She’s lying there as they knead her, find a

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being vulnerable

I like being vulnerable.  It’s my favorite thing to do.  Being vulnerable to people who don’t want that is no good.  But being vulnerable with people who want that from me and will be vulnerable in response–that’s what I live for. It’s why I write, why I love, and my whole deal.  Activism, ritual, support

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review theory

visit

A friend I’d been in love with for more than a year came to visit.  Communication is not a strength of his.  So I wasn’t sure what he was coming for. He’d just broken up with his abusive partner, more definitively this time, and it was a good chance for him to travel.  But why

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messy

We did the breast worshiping ritual.  Wow, I was right–it was messy.  It was also amazing, and didn’t go quite as planned. The biggest surprise is how horny we got.  Something about having the objects there, reading the words at the beginning, the depth of it.  The safety of the container?  My spouse was 100%

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ritual smut

worship of the breasts

I would like to invite my spouse to participate in this ritual worship of the breasts.  Ok, it might get messy.  Please have a soft napkin or tissues handy. My vision for this ritual is we get into a frame of mind where my breasts are simultaneously my breasts and some kind of cosmic Great

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breast convention

“That would be conventional,” I said, and moved his hand to my breast.  We were cuddling nakedly in bed, and he was sleepy.  We were having a conversation that was inconsequential. “Wow, wouldn’t that be great.  Would you like to go to a breast convention?  I bet you’d like that.” “Yeah!” he said. “Mmm, I

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clover

“Will you kiss my nipples really softly, like the dew kisses the clover?” I asked.  I needed gentleness, as I often do. “What dude kisses the clover?” my spouse asked. “The dew!” I said.  “You know. The water that condenses out of the air.  Like fog.” “Oh,” he said.  He kissed my nipples gently, the

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body

My body is always changing, as I age and my disabilities fluctuate.  But my feelings about my body change even more! I love my body for reals, hardcore, unconditionally.  My disabilities, my fatness, the strength of my legs, the beauty of my breasts, my smile, my hair.  My lovely, trustworthy vulva that gives so much

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