I had a realization about my spouse. It’s a big deal because it affects my sexual behavior. realization The two women I can think of who’ve pursued my spouse, over the past few years, would have been so destablizing for our family if my spouse had pursued them back. Recently we learned that one of
“If you’re going to do all the work of relationship, you might as well have sex a lot,” was the thought I strongly felt in my torso, this morning, waking up my spouse. I want more sex. He slept in a couple hours longer than usual. So I went to the bedroom and turned on
I think about power all day. Capitalism and money, how people relate in families, friendship, workplaces. I think about power in any organization where people might give up power intentionally, in hopes of receiving something in return such as protection. Governments, churches, alliances between organization. I even think about power with animals. If someone has
“Does that hurt your neck, when I jostle you like that?” I asked him. “No, feels great,” he said. We were lying in bed mostly naked, early morning, and he was waking up and falling back asleep over and over. I was sometimes rocking him energetically. “My neck hurts a lot, like half the time.
pesto love “Can you smell the pesto on my breath?” I asked–I’d just come to bed, waking him. “Yes,” he said. We were both mostly naked and cuddly. “Does is smell good?” I asked. “Yes,” he said. “Are you jealous that I fell in love with pesto?” I asked. “No, it’s ok,” he said. “Well,