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vegan cum

“Why don’t you get a vegan cock and balls, and I’ll eat the vegan cum?” I asked. My spouse was craving baked goods, so I suggested a local donut chain that used to have a cream filled donut called cock and balls.  It was funny and daring. But we live here now; I hadn’t been

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vibrator

I got a new vibrator and wanted to show you.  It cost a hundred dollars at the local sex toy shop.  That was a usual price there. My old vibrator was too small.  I like its cuteness and dark blueness. The way it has two separate vibrating sides is cool. But my body needs a

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queerness at the sex party

There’s so much I learned at the sex party.  I wrote that long post about it, but I left a lot out.  I want to write about queerness at the sex party because that’s one of the things that I was paying attention to and that matters the most. age I have a cliche that

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sex party

I went to my first bdsm sex party.  I went there to learn, and I did learn–more than I expected, about myself and others.  While I was there and for a day or so afterward, I felt very positive about the experience.  I was elated.  As the days pass, I feel less positive and less

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sex toy

“Hey, look at this. It’s a sex toy made for disabled people,” I told my spouse. He seemed interested and looked at my screen as we hugged.  Long ago he worked as a personal care attendant.  He’s disabled–I’m disabled.  His ex is disabled, and lots of our friends, in various ways. The sex toy is

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sex graffiti

I was taking a morning walk with my spouse and saw some sex graffiti.  I felt excited because I love street art, and it’s somewhat lacking in our neighborhood. This art seemed childish.  I laughed and showed my spouse.  “Look at the scissor dick,” I said. If you’re not sure that’s a dick, there’s a

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visit

A friend I’d been in love with for more than a year came to visit.  Communication is not a strength of his.  So I wasn’t sure what he was coming for. He’d just broken up with his abusive partner, more definitively this time, and it was a good chance for him to travel.  But why

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good girl

A sex blogger instagram acquaintance of mine has a new book coming out, 101 Kinky Things Even You Can Do.  Here is a link to find it. https://www.powells.com/book/101-kinky-things-even-you-can-do-9781913947217 This instagram pic made me smile and think.  Cute good girl tattoos, and cool placement!  And the underwear with donuts–how appealing.  And the beautiful ass, and luscious

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billboard

Yesterday we took my good friend to the airport.  Rides to the airport, I see more of the city than usual.  There was a billboard that caught my eye, as it was supposed to. The billboard says, “Scream your own name.”  And it has a picture of a device.  The device is shaped like half

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queer art

I love this queer art by the_papa_artist.  Please visit and support https://www.instagram.com/the_papa_artist/.  This queer art feels so luxurious and empowering.  Sensual and realistic. First I loved this one, Respect Sex Workers. View this post on Instagram A post shared by PAPA artist AKA Betty Rose (@the_papa_artist) The pinks, the feelings, the tarot cardness, the art

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