“Hey, look at this. It’s a sex toy made for disabled people,” I told my spouse. He seemed interested and looked at my screen as we hugged. Long ago he worked as a personal care attendant. He’s disabled–I’m disabled. His ex is disabled, and lots of our friends, in various ways. The sex toy is
I was taking a morning walk with my spouse and saw some sex graffiti. I felt excited because I love street art, and it’s somewhat lacking in our neighborhood. This art seemed childish. I laughed and showed my spouse. “Look at the scissor dick,” I said. If you’re not sure that’s a dick, there’s a
A friend I’d been in love with for more than a year came to visit. Communication is not a strength of his. So I wasn’t sure what he was coming for. He’d just broken up with his abusive partner, more definitively this time, and it was a good chance for him to travel. But why
A sex blogger instagram acquaintance of mine has a new book coming out, 101 Kinky Things Even You Can Do. Here is a link to find it. https://www.powells.com/book/101-kinky-things-even-you-can-do-9781913947217 This instagram pic made me smile and think. Cute good girl tattoos, and cool placement! And the underwear with donuts–how appealing. And the beautiful ass, and luscious
Yesterday we took my good friend to the airport. Rides to the airport, I see more of the city than usual. There was a billboard that caught my eye, as it was supposed to. The billboard says, “Scream your own name.” And it has a picture of a device. The device is shaped like half
I love this queer art by the_papa_artist. Please visit and support https://www.instagram.com/the_papa_artist/. This queer art feels so luxurious and empowering. Sensual and realistic. First I loved this one, Respect Sex Workers. View this post on Instagram A post shared by PAPA artist AKA Betty Rose (@the_papa_artist) The pinks, the feelings, the tarot cardness, the art
I’m so excited I had an essay published in BiWomen Quarterly. Last time, they published a poem I wrote called “how I find it.” This essay is called “Threesome” and is vulnerable. I talk about wanting a threesome over the years, attempts at forming a larger family, and how all that feels. I mention heartbreak,
Ok, here is the promised vibrator review. The first day I got my new vibrator, I went to bed with my spouse and we tried it out. This vibrator is heavy for its size, small, and intended for clit stimulation. It has a cleft, or two prongs, and the idea is that your clit can