Thank you for your willingness to participate in worship of the hands. Do you need a drink of water, a relaxing substance, or any words to help you feel good to do this ritual? –I have what I need. Thank you. Great. The plan I have in mind is… We both wash our hands at
This meme is playful, the reasons to be poly, and this brain ranking. It’s not to be taken seriously–the point is the D&D joke at the end. But I saw my reasons are not on there. My main reason to have open relationship is resilience through diversity. It’s a permaculture concept. I wish for a
Nurturing from cis-men can feel so rare–we’re beaming with joy, that a cis-man did something kind. I’ve been in the situation of my head hitting a wall during sex, and advocating for myself, or someone else advocating for me. A few times, I was not able to say “stop” to move the pillow in place.
I came to bed to wake him up. Sweetly, I cuddled on his back, my breasts naked against his naked back. “Hey, sweetie,” I said. “Ow ow ow ow ow!” he said. “Leg cramp?” I asked. He couldn’t really talk yet. His face was contorted with pain. He grabbed at his left calf. “Let’s get
Here’s the promised beach sex fantasy I told my spouse, as he lay in bed and blindfoldedly masturbated. beach sex There was a nude beach, and part of the beach was designated for people to have sex. You and I both worked near there, and we would meet at the sexy part of the beach
“Your eye is twitchy!” I said to my spouse, mid-conversation. “Does it hurt?” I watched his right eyelid make that vibrate motion. “No, it’s ok,” he said. “Is it annoying?” I asked. “No,” he said. “Maybe you’re looking too much,” I said. “How about later I blindfold you and give you some non-sight sensations?” blindfold
“Hey, what if I buy you a Mexican dressup shirt, project a bunch of family stuff on to you, then have sex with you. Does that sound fun?” I asked my spouse. He was standing in the kitchen and looked at me kind of confused. “Uh, yeah?” he said. Usually when I say a list
Sometimes I wish safety was possible. I saw this meme saying “Monogamy is not a safety net” and felt a sad joy of recognition. So true. I wish monogamy was a safety net–I wish there was safety anywhere. I prefer openness, with honest communication, doing the work of love, showing up, the pleasure and joy
Yesterday we took my good friend to the airport. Rides to the airport, I see more of the city than usual. There was a billboard that caught my eye, as it was supposed to. The billboard says, “Scream your own name.” And it has a picture of a device. The device is shaped like half
“All those things I said we could do–we don’t need to do any of them. The time I said–we could do different times also. Those were just ideas. We don’t need to be rigid.” I told all that to my spouse–we were lying in bed, early morning. I was comforting him, that our day could