I don’t think your feelings for anyone are wrong. I never feel ashamed of you. I think you can feel however you feel about anyone in the world. You are free, and no one can own your heart.
Maybe behavior could be more of a thing to limit, if you choose to. But you know, I could be in love with the whole fuckin world at times. I find that beautiful. And trying to kill a feeling never really works anyway.
Your love for someone or tenderness or desire–that’s beautiful. I believe: good for you, for bringing closeness and love-energy into the world. You have a good heart and good intentions. I totally believe in you.