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I love you, Mother Earth

My friend txted me a picture of this card–he said it was hot, looked like someone fingering the earth. Hells yeah.  I would finger the earth, fuck the earth with my rose quartz strap-on and my entire soul, cuddle the earth, make any kind of love to the earth. The Earth is my true love,

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smut theory

self-love wolverine

“Your arm is so pretty,” I said, admiring its muscles and smoothness, his beautiful light brown skin.  “If I was so pretty as you, I would just lie in bed and masturbate…all day!” We shared a smile about that.  I get confused, sometimes.  My friend built a staircase-porch so beautiful; I told him–if I could

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sexually responsible: how I invented ethics and learned how to love

insert image here I looked up BDSM public domain images to plop into this post, and what I saw had nothing to do with what I actually did. the stuff we did wasn’t costly–I didn’t buy any costuming or gear.  I’m not a thin white woman with big tits, restrained and slightly grinning, suggesting naughtiness.

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smut theory

fucking alchemy: transforming daily social violation with demanding blowjobs

content warning: pretend violence for healing what you suck is what you get Lately I want him to hold my head down on his dick really hard when he’s ejaculating, so his semen pumps down my throat, and I get a delighted, happy, used, close feeling. Also, it might be easier on my neck.  I

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ritual

new moon: how the ritual went

We did the ritual last night; my friend mentioned it was a new moon.  It was beautiful.  I was unprepared for the intense emotions. My favorite part was being in ritual space and a sexy space at the same time.  He lit the candle.  We added a couple things, like we sang a Mother song

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sex healing place

We were lying in bed, close and cuddly.  I started having a story going in my mind, unraveling like a dream. “Can I tell you this fantasy I’m having?” I asked him. “Yes,” he said. Ok, well, you washed up on the shore of an island.  You were in a boatwreck and were badly injured. 

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significant exes

I asked a newish friend how many significant ex-es he had and the main reason he usually broke up with people.  I found my own questions kinda rude. Most everyone has ex-es–how do you choose what’s significant?  It seemed unkind to classify any ex as insignificant.  But I have so many.  Do they all matter?

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love sex ritual

  This love sex ritual is about connection, blessing, honoring.  A refreshing of commitment and expression of care.  Please adapt for use with your own partner person or persons. materials:  friendship candle, dish of water, rose oil, hunk of amethyst, Mother image, chocolate, water to drink, lighter, pouch of magic I am naked in the

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gender anarchy household

respect me: do you respect me? him: I love you. me: but do you respect me?  always? him: yes. me: is love a type of respect?  or are they separate? worship me: I want you to worship me. him: I do. me: no, I mean formally.  worship the hell outta me, then fuck the shit

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sex in the morning: what I have

Before, I didn’t like having sex in the morning.  We had a policy–only after breakfast. Why did I dislike having sex first thing?  I found it disorienting.  Sex was a big deal–I wanted to be ready. Nowadays I like when sex can be a big deal, taking hours for the whole process, but it could

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